Snakes, Wolves and Wool: How to Describe Deceit

Intermediate
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Snakes, Wolves and Wool: How to Describe Deceit
The English writer Noël Coward once wrote that it is sad to see "how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit."
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Deceit means keeping the truth hidden, often to get an advantage. Coward was probably saying that people aren't shocked by deceit because they see it so often.
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And there are probably as many ways to describe deceit as there are ways to deceive someone!
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If you're "talking behind someone's back" you might not be trying to deceive them, but it does mean you're talking about them in secret — and the things you're saying probably aren't very nice.
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You can also "go behind someone's back" and do something without their knowledge.
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If you're doing this, you might be described as "a snake in the grass." This describes someone who acts friendly, but will do anything to get what they want.
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They might even "stab you in the back" — act like your friend, then do something to hurt you.
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If they're not a snake, they might be "a wolf in sheep's clothing."
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This expression is thought to be thousands of years old. It was used in the Bible, and also by the Greek storyteller Aesop in a story about a wolf who dressed in the skin of a sheep to trick the other sheep and eat them.
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Now we use it about someone who looks harmless — like a sheep — but plans to hurt us, like a wolf.
People who wish to deceive may also try to "pull the wool over our eyes."
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It's thought this expression was first used in the 19th century, when some people wore wool wigs.
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If someone pulled your wig down you wouldn't be able to see what was really happening — and it would be easy to trick you.
Have a discussion based on the following questions.
Which of the expressions in the article did you find interesting?
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Who are the most honest or trustworthy people you know?
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Do your friends often talk behind each other's backs?
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Has someone ever tried to pull the wool over your eyes?
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Do you think honesty is more common than deceit?
Discussion
Further Discussion
Have a discussion based on the following questions.
Are "white lies" a cultural norm in your country?
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Have you ever been caught telling a lie?
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What expressions are used to describe lying or liars in your language?
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Do you know of any expressions that come from old stories in your language?
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It is more shameful to distrust our friends than to be deceived by them. — Confucius. What do you make of this statement?